If you want your relationship to last. Then you’re going to have to learn a lot about forgiveness. Learn a lot about sacrifice. About sometimes putting what you feel aside in order to make things work. You’re going to have to get used to losing every once in a while. Get used to not getting what you want sometimes. Get used to sharing the spotlight. Sharing what’s yours. Your mind. Body. And soul. You’re going to have to learn how not to be alone all the time. How to share your deepest thoughts and secrets with someone you love. How to be vulnerable. And how to be okay with this change. If you want to make a relationship work, then you must learn about these things. Because these things will make the difference between how much you’ll grow together. Between how long it will last. 如果你想讓你的關系持續下去。那么你將不得不學會很多關于原諒的事情。學會很多關于犧牲的事情。關于有時為了把事情做好而把你的感受放在一邊。 你將不得不適應偶爾的失敗。適應有時得不到你想要的東西。適應分享聚光燈。分享屬于你的東西。你的思想、身體和靈魂。 你將不得不學會如何不總是獨自一人。如何與你愛的人分享你最深的思想和秘密。如何變得脆弱。以及如何接受這種變化。 如果你想讓一段關系成功，那么你必須了解這些事情。